Writing at the Intersection of Clarity, Creativity, and Real Life

This is a place to think out loud, slowly, and with care.

Essays, reflections, and short-form writing that explore decision-making, leadership, creativity, and the lived experience of navigating change. The focus is not instruction. It is observation. Not answers, but orientation.

Creative Adaptive Intelligence runs quietly through how choices are examined, pauses are held, and return is treated as intelligence.

Where real life meets real clarity and joy gets the last word.

Thriv Resources

It’s like she turns chaos into coherence without losing the human part.
— Michelle S.

A weekly note written for people who lead, create, and carry responsibility.

Not a recap. Not a sermon. A moment of grounding.
One email a week, designed to clarify rather than consume.

Subscribers receive reflections drawn from lived experience, current writing, and the quieter moments that tend to get lost in urgency. The tone is intentional. The cadence is human.

One intentional sip at a time.


The essays

This collection examines how clarity, discernment, and values-based choice show up in real life. They look closely at urgency, burnout, leadership pressure, rest, over-adaptation, and the long arc of decision-making over time.

Rather than defining concepts, the writing traces patterns.

Some pieces are personal. Others are observational. All are grounded in the same question:

What helps people move forward without losing themselves?

Featured Essays in Decision-Making in Uncertain Times:

Three foundational essays exploring why choosing feels harder right now and what kind of intelligence this moment is asking of us.

Essay I: Why Decision-Making Feels Broken

Examines the contemporary conditions that strain decision-making and explains why capable people experience fatigue, hesitation, and loss of orientation without personal failure.

Essay II: This Pause Is Intelligence at Work

Explores how Creative Adaptive Intelligence functions when certainty is unavailable, reframing pause, discernment, and orientation as active forms of intelligence rather than delay.

Essay III: The Intelligence That Returns

Describes the spiral pattern of mature decision-making, showing how revisiting questions reflects integration, boundary clarity, and evolved judgment rather than regression.

Keeping Reading

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Your Genius Return

Navigate your Genius Zone with this reflective, interactive guide inspired by The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks. Using Creative Adaptive Intelligence (CAI) and the C.A.L.M. Framework, this companion resource offers journaling prompts, everyday practices, and mindset tools to help you reclaim your rhythm, spot limiting patterns, and return to your most aligned, creative self.

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How consistency really happens

Discipline isn’t about being perfect—it’s about staying in motion when things get messy. This ThrivRESOURCE breaks down how resilience, perseverance, and consistency actually connect, and gives you six real-life ways to build discipline that adapts with you. If you’re ready to move forward without waiting for the perfect moment, this one's for you.

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The Soil Holds the Story

Explore how a missed opportunity uncovered buried beliefs, quiet truths, and the roots of self-protection. This storytelling essay invites you to dig beneath the surface, shift patterns, and rediscover your inner wisdom through the lens of Creative Adaptive Intelligence.

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Clarity Is the New Hustle

For years, I wore hustle like a badge of honor, chasing every opportunity and doubting myself every step of the way.

It took stepping away — and trusting my clarity — to finally realize:
You don't have to hustle yourself into belonging.
You get to move differently. Build differently.
You get to trust yourself differently.

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The Invisible Weight We Carry: How Over-Adapting Holds Us Back (and How CAI Frees You)

“Adaptability should fuel your success, not drain your spirit. When you adapt from clarity, not pressure, you don’t just survive—you thrive.” - Jenn

Let’s explore: How over-adapting quietly chips away at your energy, creativity, and leadership. Why saying "yes" too often disconnects you from your true vision. How Creative Adaptive Intelligence (CAI) helps you pivot with purpose, not pressure.

If you've ever wondered why doing "all the right things" still feels exhausting—you’re going to want to read this one.

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How Creative Adaptive Intelligence Turns Self-Awareness Into Sustainable Clarity

Self-awareness becomes a catalyst for Creative Adaptive Intelligence (CAI); the innate human ability to sense misalignment, adapt with clarity, and create meaning in uncertainty. Learn how the C.A.L.M. Framework (Clarity, Adaptability, Leadership, Momentum) transforms awareness into self-leadership through tools like Seeing the Unseen and Rewrite Your Story.

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Flipping the Script on Fear

Your Ego: The Messenger, Not the Competition

I used to think my ego was a saboteur, whispering doubts and fears designed to keep me stuck. But when I started flipping the script, I realized something profound:

👉 The ego isn’t stopping you—it’s showing you the edge of your comfort zone.
👉 The ego isn’t telling you not to do it—it’s highlighting what you deeply desire, yet fear the most.

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Trusting Instincts, Cultivating Intelligence

In this latest ThrivRESOURCE, I’m breaking down:
• The difference between instinct and intuition (and why both matter)
• How to reclaim self-leadership and break free from external conditioning
• Why commitment + adaptability create unstoppable momentum

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Creative Adaptive Intelligence: The Synergy of Creativity and Adaptability

Creativity alone isn’t enough—we must also be adaptable. Creative Adaptive Intelligence is the ability to pivot, problem-solve, and innovate in real time. It’s what turns challenges into opportunities and uncertainty into growth.

Through my work as a photographer and mentor, I’ve seen how embracing this mindset unlocks confidence, resilience, and success.

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Lessons from a Messy Day

"Feeling like you’re falling apart? In this raw and honest post, I share the struggles of inconsistency, self-doubt, and starting over—even after 21 years in business. Discover how reconnecting with your purpose and value can help you thrive on the messy days."

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The Creative Creed

The Creative Creed serves as a compass, guiding me to honor my creative spirit while keeping my values in alignment with the impact I want to have on the world. This creed represents a commitment to nurturing the inner spark that fuels passion, compassion, and the relentless pursuit of creative expression in ways that elevate both myself and those around me.

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Build Resiliency Not Resistance

A Reflection Exercise Overcoming Imposter Syndrome

Imposter syndrome. We’ve all felt it. That nagging doubt in the back of your mind that questions your success, your abilities, and your worthiness. Despite evidence to the contrary, it creeps in, making you feel like a fraud—like you don’t deserve the wins or recognition that come your way.

But here’s the thing: imposter syndrome isn’t a sign of failure. It’s actually a sign that you’re pushing boundaries, challenging yourself, and growing. What if, instead of seeing it as a block, you reframed it as a teacher?

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Mastering Time Management: The Pomodoro Technique

In a world where distractions are just a click away, staying focused on tasks can feel like an uphill battle. Whether you're a student, entrepreneur, or creative professional, finding a time management method that keeps you productive without burning out is essential. Enter the Pomodoro Technique—a simple yet powerful tool to help you maximize your productivity, maintain your focus, and achieve more in less time.

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From Overwhelm to Overflow: Creative Blocking

Creative blocking is a powerful technique that helps you carve out dedicated time for creative work, ensuring your projects receive the focus and attention they deserve. By identifying your peak creative times, scheduling consistent blocks, and eliminating distractions, you can boost your productivity and creative flow. Start small by integrating one or two creative blocks into your weekly routine, and gradually expand as you see the benefits. Want to learn more about how creative blocking can transform your workflow?

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“Own Your Story” #1 Best Seller

Excited to announce "Own Your Story: Empower, Connect, Create Change," featuring my story and those of 30 extraordinary women. Launched June 11th and is considered a #1 Best Seller. Get the Kindle version for $0.99!! #EWE24 #EmpoweredWomenAnthology

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Navigating Complex Decisions: Strategies for Success

Discernment is a critical yet often overlooked component of effective decision-making. It acts as your internal compass, helping to navigate through the noise and direct your choices toward what truly matters. But what exactly does it mean to practice discernment, and how can it transform your decision-making process?

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